I was online looking up motorcycles when
this site popped up on the side bar. It caught my eye with the title.
How To Pick The Right Wife
Curiosity made me hit the link. I
read it to my hubby we had time to wait since we were getting an oil change.
This article made my mouth drop! I laugh as I disputed some of it how could someone write this stuff? It was hilarious! His name is Victor so blame him. I guess I can agree with
some but sure not all of it but I will say more men need to follow some
guideline in picking the right wife. Same goes for women you can't sleep with
everyone and expect people to respect you. You can't sleep with a married
person and expect them to marry you. If your lady or man is still caught up on
their past love it's time to move on. If they don't respect you that should be the card you are looking for to stay or go.This man Victor is just saying it as he
sees it. What are your thoughts after you read what I took from his site?
(Below) If you are interested in the rest I will leave a link to his blog.
Click on it if you dare!
Notes
from Victor
You have two options: You will get
married or you won’t get married. If you will get married then this article is
for you. We will not review whether or not you should get married but we will
review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost
importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of
forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a
terrible decision.
Getting married is a business
decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into
it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.
You’ve got to pick the right wife
like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn’t be left to chance
(“love”) – you’ve got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after
it.
Marriage isn’t about love or
connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage
is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B.
If you’re wife doesn’t, or won’t, provide her share then she should not have the
privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you’ve
got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is re-inforced. You cannot
make the best decision when you’re emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old
school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract
in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign
all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational,
clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
There are only two reasons a man
should ever get married:
1) He wants to start a family.
2) His career or political ambitions
demand he has a wife (he is interested in going into politics). We will not
talk about this except to say that a political wife is for show and show only.
For this article we will assume the reader falls into the first category.
There is absolutely no other reason
to ever get married. Love is not a reason to get married. When you get married
you sign all your power over to your wife – it must be of some benefit for you
to do so. That benefit is to grow old with your family.
Again this article may make you mad.
I disagree with Victor about not getting married for love. For that matter I disagree with Victor on most of what he wrote. That is the only
reason I married my hubby.The fact he can make me laugh and smile daily is one of his best traits.He cares about people. He loves to help out.He works hard at everything he does in Life. I accepted him for who he is not who he was. He has
never lied to me about anything. No matter how hard it may hurt the truth will
always be better in the end. We both respect we each other to be up front.
Everything was put on the table in the beginning everything! My hubby provides,
support, and loves us with his whole heart not half most of all he will stop at
nothing to make our children and I happy. I picked a wonderful man to spend the
rest of my life with. I thank him all the time for what he does as he will
thank me for the same. He makes me cry when he tells me he loves me for
standing by and supporting him through everything. I have never turned my back
on him no matter what life has made pass by. I strongly believe a marriage is
50/50 you have to give your all to make it work. You have to be willing to
fight for what you love. Divorce is not an option for us not now or ever. If we have a problem we are going to sit down and work it out. My hubby and I have been through unreal drama, death, cancer
in the family, moving, meeting new family,job change for both of us and loss of not one but two
children by miscarriage. We never blame or bring up the past as for it means
the past. There is nothing you can do about it. We live in the moment at hand. Nothing has ever had a hold on us it only makes us STRONGER as a couple!
We cherish what life and the lord has given us TIME with each other and our
children. We have so much to be grateful for like our health and happiness. I
never in a billion years thought my life would be this much fun. I never knew I
could be this happy with life in general. It's great! Why you may ask? Because
I make it that way. That's how I came up with the title of my blog LIFE IS ONLY
WHAT YOU MAKE IT! Life can only be as good as you make it to be no matter what situation
you are in. As for Victor is concern he has a few points where you think he may
be a little over the top but he put it out there.I agree with one parent staying home to raise the children. Raising our children is the most important job a parent will ever have. My hubby is a little old fashion when it comes to that.Which is fine with me I love staying home with our boys. I love the fact that my hubby gives me the option to. I still work from home our business is well. I just don't see why both parents need to work. One job is paying for daycare alone now if you are a single parent then I understand.The children of today need that other parent home to help guide them in the right direction.
It's up to you what you do in life! Do you have any guidelines before you get married?
Happy Reading!
It's up to you what you do in life! Do you have any guidelines before you get married?
Happy Reading!